Sally Watkins is available for talks, workshops or booksignings. She will also consult one-on-one by phone or Skype about personal issues related to the book. Email or phone her for more information.
These are some of my favorite authors! I am very indebted to them for their praise of my book:
This book shows in clear and practical ways how to let go of demands, drama, and expectations in relationships. The self-confidence that results makes women more appealing as partners and more serene within themselves. Sally Watkins has presented wise guidance for women but men can also benefit immensely from this peek into female feelings and needs.
"Change Your Mindset Not Your Man offers a truely unique perspective on relationships....well written, honest, realistic, and practical. This book is about growth, personal empowerment and the development of mature perspectives on intimate relationships. This is a must read for those who long for lasting relationships."
Relationship wisdom may very well begin with these words: "Let it be as it is!" Sally Brooke Watkins tells why this is so and how we can apply this transformative concept in everyday life. With the help of clear and interesting anecdotes, she breaks new ground for deepening our love and respect for ourselves and others. This book strikes a chord of truth that is as down-to-earth as it is refreshing.
Sally Watkins offers women effective tools for self-awareness and empowerment, directing their attention inward, instead of focusing on their partners. I am pleased to see so many of the powerful principles of psychosynthesis presented here in clear, conversational language, with helpful examples and stories. So many self-help books offer only simplistic how-to formulas. Change Your Mindset goes far beyond that, setting the reader off on a life journey of self-discovery and self-development.
This wise and profound book is not just about the relationship with "your man", though
that is its focus. It's about many philosophical and psychological principles as they apply
to life's most critical issues. This is not a one idea book, but it's most central theme is
the critical need for taking responsibility for one's life. Not a new idea, but this work can
help you "get it" in a way that makes a difference. If you truly engage with this sage
book and its work, you will be richly rewarded.
"Change Your Mindset, Not Your Man helps women face some important truths: 1) A romantic partner cannot make up for what you missed as a child and it is unfair to expect a man to do so, 2) A woman shouldn't look to her partner to be her everything. As the title implies, instead of focusing on changing their mates, women need to focus instead on changing themselves--including their false beliefs, their fantasies and their ability to take care of their own needs. I recommend the book to any woman who feels stuck and/or dissatisfied in her relationship.
Sally Watkins understands why women are so unhappy, and why so many marriages don't work: the fairy tale expectations that many women try to make work in their marriages. Change your Mindset, not your Man teaches women how to leave behind the myths that don't work and learn how to go beyond "I" into an "I-Thou" relationship by changing thoughts, taking responsibility, and dropping old patterns.
Finally a book that has us look at marriage realistically! I cannot wait to recommend Change Your Mindset, Not Your Man to all the married women I know who are struggling to accept their less-than-perfect spouses. Sally Watkin's book shows us how making the most of our lives, rather than trying to fix our husbands, is the surest path to happiness.